My 7 year old adopted son is ssssooo disrespectful to me that I can't stand it anymore. He calls me stupid,idiot, liar and tells me to shut up or shut my mouth. He tells me no 2o millions times a day. He has temper tantrums after temper tantrums when I tell him no. He was just being disreespectful to me and no one else but lately he has been talking disrespectful to just about everyone that he comes in contact with. Except at school. This is the first year he has actually had a good year of school and that's because he is afaraid of his teacher. He does all his work everyday and has even gotten rewards (which are hanging up on his walls.) He has went to parties at school. But when he comes home and its time to do homework I have heck to pay. I can handle everything he does except the disrespect. My mother lives with me and he has been disrespectful to her as well and she is from the old school and I have to try to keep the peace between them. I have tried everything the therapist has suggested to everything anyone else has suggested but nothing has worked. He has consequences and time outs and losing prevledges to no avail. I don't beleive in spanking kids so I don't know what else to do.