I'm sorry that you're having a hard time - parents of Children of Trauma always do. Sometimes there up times, sometimes not so up. You can post to the Behaviour Forum for specific advice on your situation. I think you'll get more attention there.
I think one of the things your kiddo is feeling is a sense of final loss, on a subconscious, of the bio-parents. You will likely have anniversary setbacks each year right around the time you finalised. Be patient and consistent. These steps back will reverse and you'll have good times again.
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I'm sorry that you're having a hard time - parents of Children of Trauma always do. Sometimes there up times, sometimes not so up. You can post to the Behaviour Forum for specific advice on your situation. I think you'll get more attention there.
I think one of the things your kiddo is feeling is a sense of final loss, on a subconscious, of the bio-parents. You will likely have anniversary setbacks each year right around the time you finalised. Be patient and consistent. These steps back will reverse and you'll have good times again.